Stories Dying to be Told

Originally published in the Spring, 1999 American Anthropological Association Newsletter.
 
 

Death is sometimes thought to be the ultimate source of religious inspiration for humankind and it is always a topic I cover in my comparative religion course. Oddly, death has been out of fashion in anthropology although that is beginning to change as ethnographies on the topic appear. So too with visual anthropology; two new videos develop themes of death and its consequences for survivors in interesting ways.

Calaveras is a 1997 AAA award winning video about contemporary Day of the Dead celebrations in San Francisco. Through the losses of several Latino families, their grief and their efforts to literally keep alive a relationship with the deceased are presented. The deaths, from AIDS, a murder, old age, are remembered on the Day of the Dead when spirits make their annual return and visit the altars set up by family members for them. Each altar is unique and contains items used and liked by the deceased. There are shoes, coffee cups, chocolate, liquor, favorite foods, photographs, books, newspaper clippings, and of course religious icons, candles, and the hundreds of little plastic and sugar skeletons and grinning skulls (the calaveras) which are the key symbols of the event.

Three themes emerge in these family stories and each is useful as a point for class discussion. Remembering and the presence of the dead is central to this event. There is no "closure," as American pop-psychology would have it, but rather an on-going relationship with the dead whose presence is still felt. This ritual emphasis on continuity is an important point because newer research on grief, particularly by social constructionists, makes good use of themes of memory and tradition to develop new understandings of grief and how it operates long after the funeral is over. A second theme, the historical authenticity of the ritual and how it should be experienced, is developed in an interesting way. One Latino participant says that Day of the Dead ceremonies should be "inclusive." They belong to everyone, he says, because everyone dies. But another has her doubts. She argues that the ceremony is not about ethnicity but a tradition and it would be fine for "others" (meaning whites and, one suspects, younger Latinos with their own agendas) to participate if they troubled themselves to learn something of what it is all about. It cannot really be "inclusive" if there is no understanding and she objects to new themes and new issues being injected into the ceremonies by those who don't have an educated sensibility about the history of the event. That, she says, does not honor anyone's dead. Her concern is dramatized when the camera shifts to a young gay man who is white and who has prepared a different kind of altar for the Day of the Dead, one that is quite abstract and not part of any particular tradition. He and his friends have glued upright thousands of paper matches on a large panel, one for each person who has died of AIDS in San Francisco, and the panel will be ignited to honor their memory. As the matches burn, this striking scene asks to wonder, and debate, how and why this might be inclusive, authentic, or deserving of a place within Day of the Dead ceremonials.

The third theme, very sensitively developed by the film maker, is the ambiguity that always surrounds our relations with the dead. Moving beyond the affirming tone of the earlier part of the film where the spirits are pleasantly invited to join the living, two individuals talk about their difficult relationship with their deceased parents and how that is reflected in the choice of objects they provide for the welcoming altar. For them the Day of the Dead is not a quaint and colorful musical event to "celebrate" a life that was once among us. It is a time of painful and difficult reflection on people who were important in their lives and who were also hard to be with and hard to love. Maybe, the video suggests, that kind of rumination is what rituals like the Day of the Dead are supposed to inspire. "Closure" is not what grief is really about.

Professor James Green, University of Washington